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Like most when I joined "the community" I wanted to get better with chicks. I was an uber-afc. I started banging chicks left and right from skanky college broads to former model chicks(and a few fatties here and there jeffy style) etc etc
I started to "identify" myself with the chicks I was banging and how "hot" or "not hot" they were, and now I'm fucked up. I don't look at women as "hb's" anymore but everytime I fuck a chick I think to myself in the back of my mind "she is a 6 I could bang 8 right now or a 9"
Because a "6" isn't good enough, but then what makes a girl a 9? because she is "hotter" or has a better personality? and even if u do bang a 9, does that mean she has a better personality then a 6? when the 6 could get bumped up?
she how fucked this logic of ratings is?
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I don't think it's just the community that fucks us up like that, but society.
I've had that recently, because I've gotten way into a girl that I've been talking to for months on and off, who is not the hottest girl I've ever been with, but just does it for me. I'm enamored with this girl. But in the back of my mind, I keep thinking, "I've been with girls sooooo much 'hotter' than this, why do I like this girl?"
Who gives a fuck. It's about what you feel and connect with.
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Emotional needs are different than sexual needs. Depending on your background and life experiences until this point, you will have certain emotional needs. Some girls will be able to fill both emotional and sexual needs for you, and some girls will only be able to fill one or the other.
Emotional needs are the biggest need that every human needs filled. That's just how we're wired, there's no getting around it.
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+ 1. This is deep. And it makes a lot of sense.
Nick is my puahate guru.
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At least you were able to bang hot chicks. I have been in this com
munity since 2004, done thousands of sets/approaches and I still have not been with a "hot" chick no matter what I have tried to learn from the "gurus" - they have my money and I have my hand...lol
So at least consider yourself lucky to even be in the position you are in.
QUOTE=Aries;24110]Like most when I joined "the community" I wanted to get better with chicks. I was an uber-afc. I started banging chicks left and right from skanky college broads to former model chicks(and a few fatties here and there jeffy style) etc etc
I started to "identify" myself with the chicks I was banging and how "hot" or "not hot" they were, and now I'm fucked up. I don't look at women as "hb's" anymore but everytime I fuck a chick I think to myself in the back of my mind "she is a 6 I could bang 8 right now or a 9"
Because a "6" isn't good enough, but then what makes a girl a 9? because she is "hotter" or has a better personality? and even if u do bang a 9, does that mean she has a better personality then a 6? when the 6 could get bumped up?
she how fucked this logic of ratings is?
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You just gave me a massive epiphany.
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Yah, I second that, you've had at least some action Aries.
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